All moms know that parenting is a challenging job.
We all want to do the best we can for our kids, but sometimes emotion gets in the way and leads us to feel overwhelmed.
This blog post will go over 12 ways you can keep emotions (such as frustration and anger) out of parenting. It’s not easy, but it becomes second nature with some practice!
Remember that you are the adult, and your child is the child. Therefore, it’s essential to maintain a sense of authority in your parenting, even when you feel like you’re losing your cool. Kids can quickly pick up on emotions, so staying calm and consistent is essential.
If you get frustrated or angry, take a break and remember your end goal. Are you trying to get your child to clean their room? Make them eat their vegetables? Get them ready for bed on time? If so, take a deep breath and remember that the hard day is temporary. The goal is not to make your child miserable; it’s to help them grow into healthy, responsible adults.
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Stay positive! Kids are very adaptable. Here are twelve ways to keep your emotions out of correcting your child.
Tip #1:
Don’t take things personally – remember that parenting is hard, and everyone makes mistakes.
Tip #2:
Stay calm and consistent, even when you’re feeling frustrated or overwhelmed.
Tip #3:
Talk to your child about their feelings and why they might be acting a certain way.
Tip #4:
Model positive behavior for your child – treat them with respect, kindness, and patience.
Tip #5:
When needed, give yourself timeouts, so you don’t take out your anger on your child.
Tip # 6:
Be aware of your mood and your triggers.
Tip #7:
Keep a sense of humor.
Tip #8:
Get enough sleep.
Tip #9:
Set up boundaries for what is acceptable behavior.
Tip #10:
Give children choices, but always consequences if they don’t follow through.
Tip #11:
Avoid getting into power struggles – they’ll only wear you down and won’t get you anywhere.
Tip #12:
Give lots of positive reinforcement – children need to know that they’re doing a good job.
Being a parent can feel challenging.
But no matter what season of parenting you are in, it is possible to find joy and enjoy your family! These 12 tips will help you keep emotions out of parenting and maintain a sense of authority. Remember, it’s not easy, but it becomes second nature with practice!
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Hi there, I’m Jenna! I am a devoted mommy and wife. As well as an advocate for children and creating a peaceful atmosphere for those we love. I co-wrote Faith Actually: Living Life After Tragedy with my husband. I have my Bachelor’s Degree in Biblical Studies and currently working toward my Master’s in Positive Psychology. My number one desire is to create a peaceful home life for my family. My second desire is to share with you the tips I learn along the way!