Happy day! How are you today? What has been the most effective part of this challenge for you so far?
It’s day 11 of the 14 Days of Peaceful Parenting Challenge! Today, we’ll talk about how to apologize to your child. When you’re wrong, it’s important to own up to it and apologize. This teaches your child humility and that adults make mistakes too. We’ll go over tips on how to apologize effectively, and then we’ll discuss some common mistakes parents make when apologizing to their children. Let’s get started!
How to Apologize Effectively:
When you apologize to your child, be sure to do it in a genuine and meaningful way. Here are some tips on how to apologize effectively:
-Be specific about what you’re sorry for. Don’t just say, “I’m sorry.” Tell your child what you did wrong and why you’re sorry.
-Make eye contact. This shows your child that you mean what you say and are sincere.
-Use words of encouragement. After apologizing, tell your child that you still love them and are proud of them. This will help them feel forgiven and loved after making a mistake.
-Don’t make excuses. Don’t try to justify your actions or blame your child for what happened. Own up to your mistake and apologize without making any excuses.
-Be patient and understanding. Your child may not forgive you right away, and that’s okay. Be patient and give them time to process what happened. Be understanding of their feelings and be there for them when they’re ready to talk about it.
It is important to learn to apologize to your child when you are wrong and not just hang on to the prideful idea that “I’m the adult, and I’m never wrong.”
Owning up to our mistakes and apologizing teaches our children humility and that mistakes are okay. It also shows them that we are human and willing to admit when we’re wrong and apologize for it. This is a valuable lesson that they will carry with them into adulthood. You will find that children are usually pretty forgiving if you put away your pride and humbly apologize.
Today’s challenge: Be honest about whether or not the mindset of “being the parent” has ever gotten in the way of apologizing to your child for a mistake you made. If so, it’s not too late to apologize to your child!
Talk soon!
Jenna
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Hi there, I’m Jenna! I am a devoted mommy and wife. As well as an advocate for children and creating a peaceful atmosphere for those we love. I co-wrote Faith Actually: Living Life After Tragedy with my husband. I have my Bachelor’s Degree in Biblical Studies and currently working toward my Master’s in Positive Psychology. My number one desire is to create a peaceful home life for my family. My second desire is to share with you the tips I learn along the way!